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It has been about 6 months since I have even looked at my blog! The last thing I posted was right before I switched jobs (part time into full time). Then in March, I switched jobs again AND bought a new car! Life has been busy, that's for sure, but I am thankful for the busyness! It is all a result of the Lord's blessings in my life. So I have zero complaints! :) I decided to log into my account and saw a draft that I wrote back in January and never posted. The truth of this little thought helped me, and I hope it helps someone else.

Enjoy.



I have spent the majority of my life single. Guess what? I LIVED. Growing up I was never boy crazy. I had crushes and liked guys, but I never was the girl that had to have a boyfriend/relationship. Some people may be judgmental and think, "Well, you're not all that attractive so it was easy for you." People have actually said that to me in a 'round about way. Well, my brother had the same concept and girls were constantly throwing themselves at him. I think my parents helped us prioritize. As he says, "Girls are CRAZY!!" And I have to agree.

Girls, especially Christian girls, are obsessed with finding "the one," getting married and having children by the time they turn 19 or they are a failure in life.

Question: When did we become like this? Answer: When we left our first Love.

When I meet up with friends I haven't seen in a while, one of the first "catch up" questions asked is who I am seeing or if I'm talking to anyone. I am so very guilty of doing this, so I am preaching to myself here. Our lives are revolved around finding a relationship, whether we realize it or not.

 It's natural for us to want a relationship. Making it a priority above the Lord and our relationship with Christ is when it becomes an idol. Then it becomes a sin-- an often crippling sin. Unknowingly we have made it the center of our lives. The drive to our life. Our "void filler." Our sole purpose.

**But what is our sole purpose? To win the lost. Matthew 28:19. Only man to fill our voids and needs? Christ. Colossians 2:10. Our drive? Love of Christ. 2 Corinthians 5:14. Center of our lives? Serving the Lord. Psalm 27:4. **

I intended on posting something similar to the ones before mine, by sharing some experiences in dating and what I have learned. I did learn from mistakes that were made on both ends, and it would've been pretty easy for me to do that. Like I have said before, a month or so ago I had this idea and talked with some other ladies. We have all prayed and shared our hearts. This was my heart. I do believe the posts that have been and will be shared will help you and I both. But before you read all these dating stories, please see the big picture here.

We are not trying to get your mind on dating anymore than it probably already is. The moral of every sob story and fairy tale ending you may read is this: No boy, guy or man will EVER fill the void in your heart that is long for that fairy tale, unconditional love. The only man who can offer that to you is Christ. No matter how seemingly perfect your guy is, his spiritual walk is not enough. YOU have to have your own relationship and fellowship with Christ! That is your priority. That is your drive. That is your purpose. Serve Him, tell others about Christ and live your life for Him and not 'him.' From there will flow indescribable joy and peace. There may be lonely days, but not because you are alone. Trust the Lord and keep on keepin' on!

-Carrie Anna